What Kind of Lover Are You? (4 kinds or types of lover)

The best relationships are balanced relationships. If any single Category is Greater than 50%, you may want to work on some of other areas.

1. Friendship Love means that you put emphasis on friendship in a loving relationship and would probably find your lover to also be your closest friend.

The upside: Every Relationship needs good communication and moments of deep personal sharing.
The downside: Even the best of friends have to keep the passion alive.

2. Logical or Sensible Love involves partners who see their relationship in a practical way and express their love in a  commonsense manner. Led more by their heads than their hearts, they share interest and life goals.

The upside: Every relationships needs common goals and commitments.
The downside: In the long run, love is neither logical nor sensible.

3. Romantic or Sensual Love involves romance, passion and strong physical attraction. If you fall into this category, you are ruled more by your heart than your head.

The upside: Every relationship needs a spark.
The downside: whose those red-hot flames die down,  will you two have anything to talk about?

4. Other-Directed or a Thou-Focused Love is a love that is centerd on your partner's happiness, your respect for him or her, and your ability to endure and overcome obstacles in the relationship.

The upside: Every Relatioship needs respect.
The downside: You don't want to be clingy lover or inspire someone to depend on you too much.


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