10 TIPS PARA MAPANATILING MAMATAG AT MASAYA ANG ISANG RELASYON

By. anonymous author

Not everyone can stay long in a relationship. A good relationship is not something you can easily get anywhere, or from anyone. Dedication, hard work, effort, the list is unending for the requirements for a good relationship. But lemme give you some secrets that can lead to a healthy relationship with your girlfriend.

1. NEVER GO TO BED MAD.

Make sure that you will say your Goonights and I love yous to each other before you sleep. Wag palampasin ang gabi ng may sama ng loob sa isa't-isa. Sige ka, baka bukas may iba nang mag-goodmorning at magpasaya sa kanya.

2. ASSUME BOTH ROLES.

"Walang lalaki, walang babae" The person who gets to decide should always be based on the situation and pagiging reasonable.

3. TRUST EACH OTHER.

Hindi kelangang alam nyo pareho ang password ng isa't-isa. How about you guve each other some privacy? At ikaw naman na pinagkakatiwalaan nya, ingatan mo yan, do your part to maintain that trust. You know the dos and donts, be responsible.

4. COMMUNICATE.

Pag may problema, wag daanin sa biglang pagtahimik. Sabihin kung anong nararamdaman o kung anong problema. Don't let your partner guess what's on your mind. Wag nang mag-inarte, baka lalong lumaki ang away.

5. MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER.

Magjojowa ka tapos wala ka namang time para sa kanya? Wag mo na lang ligawan. Wag mo na lang syotain. Girlfriend mo eh, dapat you put her on your schedule. Gusto mong iprioritize ka niya?! Ganun din gawin mo sa kanya. Go out with her or be with her regularly. Di kelangang laging mag-date sa mamahaling place. Just make time for her.

6. ROMANCE.

Aminin mo man o hindi, alam nating importante talaga to sa relationship. Lalo pa, tayong mga babae ay naturally clingy and romantic.

7. KEEP THE INTERACTIONS POSITIVE ALWAYS.

Kapag pwede namang hindi na pag-awayan, wag nang gawing big deal. Wag niyo nang pag-awayan yung pagsusuot niya ng shorts, o kahit yung pagreply nya sayo na late ng 2 minutes, o yung pagbati niya ng "hi" sa friend niya na hindi mo kilala. Instead, give more hugs, kisses, affection, compliments and appreciation.

8. DON'T RUN OUT OF SURPRISES.

Mga simpleng surprises lang, yan yung mas nakakainlove. Small love notes, cooked lunch for her, flowers or chocolates from time to time. Yung mga surprises, they will keep everything fresh kaya mahalagang bagay yan.

9. IT'S NOT BEING RIGHT; ITS BEING KIND.

If you are fighting about some issues, kahit pa alam mo na ikaw yung tama, ikaw na lang yung magparaya. Ikaw na lang yung mag-sorry. Wag pairalin ang pride. Pili ka; pride mo o siya? Kung alam mo lalo na hindi naman papatalo yung isa, ikaw na lang yung maging kalmado. Try to deal with the issues calmly as much as possible.

10. DON'T DECIDE ABRUPTLY.

Wag kayong gagawa ng decisions lalo na kung nasa middle kayo ng pag-aaway, or kung galit kayo. It will damage your relationship, believe me. When you are having a heated argument, it's better to walk away. Discuss the issue once everything cools down.

I'm not saying that I do everything I mentioned. But as long as I can, tinatry ko. Because if I am to choose between her and my pride, I'll choose her over and over. Kaya dapat ikaw din, always be the patient one, the loving one, the positive one.