Break Off, Not HeartBreak ( 4 tips how to break up without hurting)
REJECTION always hurt. Moving fordward isn't easy. No matter how much you sweetend coat the truth, it always upset the two souls who used to be inlove. It is definitely better to end relationships amicably instead of fretting and fumming and making it even more difficult to go apart. If you think your relationship doesn't work anymore or not going in the right way, you are thinking how to end the relationship-nicely, without hurting someone's feelings, you have come to the right place.
Here's some tips for breaking off without hurting yourself and other's person:
1. MAKE IT PERSONAL- NEVER break the news through a phone call,e-mail, text message or in social media like facebook. It becomes more rude and very impersonal and feels the other person that you don't really care. Sit and talk to each other. Sort things out amicably.
2. HONEST- Being sincere and open about your feelings and talking about " why you feel in not going work out" is the best way to end a relation. Instead of going back in time and arguing what went wrong with the other person, It better you say what you feel. Don't hide your feelings and be honest about why feeling uncomfortable in the relationship.
3. SPECIFY, VIVID, AND VALID REASONS- Give a strong reason to support your break up. It's not wise to keep the other person wondering as to "what went wrong". No one wants to think that they were just used as a "TIME PASS or PANAKIP BUTAS " . Remember, what goes around, comes back. Someday you could be in the same position.
4. CONTROL YOUR TEMPER- This applies both to the person whi is giving the news of break up , and also the person at the receiving end. There is no need to get worked up and get angry to each other. It only makes things worse by screaming and calling names, it doesn't help. It's okay to get upset and cry if you are feeling miserable. But creating a scene and making a further mess of a delicate situation does not help.
Here's some tips for breaking off without hurting yourself and other's person:
1. MAKE IT PERSONAL- NEVER break the news through a phone call,e-mail, text message or in social media like facebook. It becomes more rude and very impersonal and feels the other person that you don't really care. Sit and talk to each other. Sort things out amicably.
2. HONEST- Being sincere and open about your feelings and talking about " why you feel in not going work out" is the best way to end a relation. Instead of going back in time and arguing what went wrong with the other person, It better you say what you feel. Don't hide your feelings and be honest about why feeling uncomfortable in the relationship.
3. SPECIFY, VIVID, AND VALID REASONS- Give a strong reason to support your break up. It's not wise to keep the other person wondering as to "what went wrong". No one wants to think that they were just used as a "TIME PASS or PANAKIP BUTAS " . Remember, what goes around, comes back. Someday you could be in the same position.
4. CONTROL YOUR TEMPER- This applies both to the person whi is giving the news of break up , and also the person at the receiving end. There is no need to get worked up and get angry to each other. It only makes things worse by screaming and calling names, it doesn't help. It's okay to get upset and cry if you are feeling miserable. But creating a scene and making a further mess of a delicate situation does not help.
Always remember, both of you started your relationship in beautiful and meaningful courtship. So end your relationship nicely. Be free to express your own thoughts, opinions and mostly your feelings. It doesn't give you negatively out come to your life. It just giving you freedom in near future. No heart ache, no head ache. Maybe someday you'll meet once again. No akwardness will be felt. You started as a friends, maybe this time you are just common friend. At the end, trust will leave marks from the past , and closeness weren't the same as before.
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